The Desire to be A Dreamer but Rationally Realistic

Recently on Sheri’s Dream Catcher’s Instagram Sip N Think Live Chat held on January 13th, 2020, our topic of discussion was on The Dreamer. Do you have the desire to be a dreamer but rationally realistic at the same time? This was a fun and interactive chat. As a matter of fact, we discussed the meaning of a dreamer. By the same token, the engagement, thoughts and opinions of those who were able to join us made it joyous and interesting.

What is a dreamer?

First, the dictionary says a dreamer is a person who dreams or is dreaming. The second definition says that a dreamer is a person who has lived in the US without official authorization since coming to the country as a minor. Furthermore, people of this description who met certain conditions would be eligible for a special immigration status under federal legislation first proposed in 2001. Watch our full video below on “The Dreamer” to hear the criteria for the second definition.

What does it mean to be called a dreamer?

So, to be called a dreamer it means a person spends a lot of time thinking about and planning for things that they would like to happen but which are improbable or impractical. Why is this so interesting to me? It is so interesting to me because, I feel like it is saying that if I am a dreamer than that means my dreams are impractical. I don’t completely agree with this statement. Furthermore, I believe we need to be able to dream and if we think our dreams are negative than we will never go after those dreams. So, I guess the question is, am I impractical? And is it ok to be impractical? Basically, I have to be ok with the fact that I am impractical and yes, I am a dreamer.

The Dreamer
The Eye of the Dreamer

Is being a dreamer a bad thing?

No, I do not believe being a dreamer is a bad thing. Do you? In fact, one cannot be a doer if at first they are not a dreamer. Clearly, dreams are comfortable because we do not share them. To clarify, this makes it easy to be a dreamer. However, when we decide to act on making those dreams a reality, it means we need to step out of our comfort zone. Which means, we become uncomfortable.

Should you dream big or just be realistic?

Well being realistic will give you a better chance of accomplishing the dreams you want to make into a reality. On the contrary, some will say that just dreaming big will be a waste of time. So, would you say that it is better to dream big, just be realistic or do both? In our video “The Dreamer” below we really got into the thoughts on being either or being both.

Envision Dream
Envision Dream, LLC

Why is it important to have a dream in your life?

The reason it is important to have a dream in your life is because it is important for all of us and all ages. Furthermore, dreams encompass our goals. Specifically, they give our life a purpose, a direction and a meaning. They help shape who we are, what we want and where we go. For instance, they shape our life choices, help build towards our future, give us a sense of control and hope. You don’t need to ask me twice why dreams are important. It should be noted that, I created a company called Envision Dream, LLC based on the philosophy of visualizing possibilities for future opportunities which came from a dream.

Why is it hard to follow your dreams?

The reason we sometimes feel our dreams are hard to follow is because we start reflecting on the dreams we haven’t fulfilled. This can make us frustrated and give up all together. Ultimately, dreams help us to move forward and grow as people. Remember, our dreams don’t have to be big to be considered an achievement.

WATCH OUR FULL SIP N THINK CHAT DISCUSSION BELOW ON THE DREAMER

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TR8UzS3Vm_I

Keep your eyes on the stars, and your feet on the ground

Theodore Roosevelt

Our Next Sip N Think Chat is scheduled for January 28th, 2021. Topic: Dream Deadline You can Join us live on Instagram @sherisdreamcatcher 8pm est.

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A Dream You Want To Achieve In The Future

A dream you want to achieve in the future begins with the process of writing your own thoughts and ideas down onto a piece of paper. For instance, have you ever heard someone say “keep a journal next to your bed”? Well, I have plenty of times. What’s the reasoning behind it? Well, they say that if you journal about your dreams, you are more likely to turn those thoughts and ideas into a reality. Remember a dream is just a dream until you’ve given commitment to the vision you created in your mind. The execution of that dream becomes a goal to achieve once you put a date to it.

A dream to achieve
A Dream You Want to Achieve

Why Must We Create A Dream Plan?

For starters, you do not have to do anything. As a result of doing nothing, it means you have achieved nothing. Am I correct? As a matter of fact, most of the time I tend to use my vision to focus on the dreams I’ve envisioned for myself to achieve. By the same token, to continue to move forward with my dream process, I tend to ask myself questions. For example, “How am I going to achieve my dream?”

Evaluation of the current situation

  • Where am I at now?
  • Where do I see myself in anther 1, 3 or 5 years from now?
  • What resources do I have available to me now?
  • What can I do on my own?
  • What do I need assistance with?
  • Who can I learn from?
  • Who can I rely on?
  • How will I take my first step?

Research, Research, Research!!!

Indeed, you have started the process of your dream foundation. Another way to look at your foundation is to think of it as creating building blocks that will formulate your plan which is connected to your goal that links to the dream you want to achieve.

A dream to achieve
What are you thoughts and Ideas?

A Plan is only a plan similar to a dream is only a dream.

In order for the dream to materialize we must put forth “Action“. For instance, sitting in a dark room visualizing our dreams is only going to produce the visualizing. Not only is “Execution” vital to achieving our dreams but “Action” also is a key component to activating our dreams into a reality. For example, a football team doesn’t win by standing on the field waiting for the referee to scream touch down. Likewise, a basketball player doesn’t stand on the court holding the ball in his hands saying “did you see that shot I didn’t take”?

A dream to achieve
Create Your Own Vision with a Vision Board

Always Try. If at first I don’t succeed, try, try again.

For this reason, I believe it is imperative to at least Try. As a consequence to our actions, it will either make or break us. Such as, not taking action will leave us at square one, just visualizing. The choice is yours really. You take the direction that is best for you, as it should be.

WATCH OUR FULL SIP N THINK CHAT DISCUSSION we had on January 28th BELOW with THE topic: Dream deadline

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wgzMdMk1yNk

Dreams don’t work, unless you do

John C. Maxwell

OUR NEXT SIP N THINK CHAT IS SCHEDULED FOR February 12, 2021. TOPIC: Undecided. YOU CAN JOIN US LIVE ON INSTAGRAM @SHERISDREAMCATCHER 8PM EST.

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Opinion Disclaimer-This is a personal blog. Any views or opinions represented in this blog are personal and belong solely to the owner and do not represent those of people, institutions or organizations that the owner may or may not be associated with in professional or personal capacity, unless explicitly stated. Any views or opinions are not intended to malign any religion, ethnic group, club, organization, company or individual